Online Dating Guide – What’s the Common Mistake Singles Make on Internet Dating Sites?

If you are new to internet dating, you will avoid some disappointment and hurt feelings when you understand a common mistake that many singles make on internet dating sites. Find out how common courtesy could correct this mistake and improve everyone’s online dating experience.

What is the online dating mistake that many singles make?

They don’t reply to emails sent from potential matches on dating sites.

This behavior is rude, as it may unwittingly hurt the feelings of the person who sent a heartfelt email in the hope of starting communication.

While I’m not condoning this common mistake, I’d like you to understand the common reasons why some some subscribers don’t respond to emails from fellow subscribers:

Popular subscribers often receive dozens of email inquiries each day — too many to answer unless it’s your job.

Busy professionals may not have time or interest to read and reply to each email they receive.
Some subscribers delete emails without a photo posted or without a great photo that speaks to them.
Some subscribers may notice spelling mistakes in your emails and think you’re a sloppy thinker.
Some may think that your love of cats is a turn off because they love dogs.
Some may be wanting more children and you wrote that you didn’t want more children.
Some may think you sound too boring or too adventurous to fit into their lifestyle.
Some may not like your hometown and you wrote that you won’t relocate.
Some are seeking a dark-haired match with dark eyes and you’re a blonde with blue eyes.

There are countless reasons why a dating site subscriber will not reply to your email or see you as their love match. Their reasons reflect a sorting process that each subscriber uses to search for a compatible match.

The purpose of exchanging emails on internet dating sites is to find your best love match–not to communicate with everyone who contacts you.

A savvy approach to online dating is to devote your time and energy in finding and communicating with a match who shows a mutual interest in getting to know each other.

No reply simply means no interest. Nothing personal. You’re simply one step closer to meeting your best match.

A healthy dating attitude is to think, NEXT, and keep searching for your mutual match among other wonderful singles on dating sites. This resilient, optimistic attitude gives you the persistence to keep searching until you find your mutual match.

How can we correct this common mistake?

If every dating site subscriber would send a polite “No, Thank You” in response to each email inquiry that doesn’t fit their dating criteria, this common courtesy could improve everyone’s online dating experience.

Meeting Your Online Date Face to Face and What to Do If it Goes Wrong

Well done. You have joined a great dating site, and found what you feel is your ideal partner. After getting to know each other online, and seeing the picture, all is well and you decide to meet face to face. This is the first step in a new relationship, will it be everything you have ever dreamed of? or will it all go wrong? If it does turn into a nightmare, and you need to get out and fast, how do you do it, and what precautions should you take to make sure you keep your escape routes open?

You may have emailed, spoken on the phone, and seen the other persons smiling face on a digital photo, even so your first meeting is in reality little better than a blind date. So you are there nervously waiting for your soul mate, but after you meet you realize quickly that there is little hope of a spark, and all you can hope for is a fire drill or other man made disaster to end it as quickly as possible. You can’t rely on fate intervening, so how do you ditch a bad date? Here are eight practical options you should always have in mind in case of a bad date emergency.

1 – First impressions count. Make sure you are there first and get yourself in a position where you can see the door. In such a way that you can see your date arrive but they can’t see you. If you get a look at them and they look approximately like the photo, but 10 years older or 50 pounds heavier, you can escape down your previously surveyed getaway route. You can always make an excuse phone call and apology once you are out. It’s guilt free you only ran because they lied first.

2 – The escape call. Before leaving for your date make sure you arrange with a friend to call you at a time when you will be a little into your date. After answering the call you can either tell your date it was not important, if all is well, if not however you can fake an emergency that will get you out of there fast.

3 – The fake call, If you didn’t arrange a get out call, you can always fake one, either by saying you have received a text message, or by going to the bathroom and saying someone called whilst you were away.

4 – The reverse fake call – You or a friend, can call the venue where you are having the date, and get them to page your nightmare companion with a fake emergency. They will be puzzled when they receive the message, but nine times out of ten will make their excuses and leave. This may also get you a free meal, don’t hang around too long though, because they may come back!

5 – The fake illness – You can always say you feel ill and need to leave, this takes a bit of care as if you seem too ill, your date may try and leave with you to look after you, so use with caution.

6 – If you are feeling particularly callous you can go the the bathroom and instead run straight out of the exit and don’t look back. Variations of this can be used depending on what type of venue you find yourself in.

7 – This works better for women, but can be adapted for both sexes. Why not use psychological warfare, and get your date to run out on you, by announcing how cute your kids will be, or how you can already see you two being married. Extreme variations of this can include, talking about the voices in your head or even talking to the voices in your head. The main advantage of this method is, if your date dumps you, you will still get to enjoy the meal, drinks, or whatever, and it’s completely guilt free.

8 – Shockingly you could try being honest. Talk to your date say you are sorry but you can see no hope of this date working, make your excuses and go. The advantage of this is whilst not being entirely guilt free, it is a little less heartless than just running, especially if carefully worded.

I hope these tips help you next time you find yourself in a hopeless situation and gets you out of there fast. I know it may seem cold but there really is no point prolonging a date once you see it has no future. Move on and better luck next time.

Online Dating Guide – How to Choose Your Best Screen Name to Attract Love on Internet Dating Sites

There are millions of singles seeking love in online dating sites. If you’d like to stand out among the crowd of great singles, learn how to choose your best screen name that helps you attract the great love of your life on internet dating sites.

What is a screen name?

This is a catchy name that you choose to identify yourself in your photo and dating profile. You will be known by this name in each communication you post with members of your online dating site.

No one will learn your real name, unless you reach a friendly point in communication and decide that you want to reveal it.

Your screen name helps you stand out among the crowd of great singles and create a great first impression, so it is important to choose wisely.

How do you choose wisely?

Think of your screen name as the name of your own radio show. The name you choose catches the attention of your ideal audience and makes them want to tune into you.

Like attracts like, so choose a screen name that attracts a love match who likes what you have to offer. This is your chance to focus on your weaknesses or your strengths.

If you choose the name, MRLONELYHEART, you will attract a match who shares your loneliness.

If you choose the name, GREATGUY4U, you will attract a match who is seeking a great guy.

What if you were deciding between the names QUEENOFDIAMONDS or QUEENOFHEARTS? Is money or love most important to you? This is what your choice of screen name reveals to your match.

Imagine the type of match you will attract with two variations of a screen name: 1KnightStand, versus YourIntimateKnight.

If you seek a healthy relationship with lasting love, which screen name would you choose?

Your best screen name reflects what you truly seek or offer and it attracts a potential love match who values this. Those who don’t will pass you by and that’s okay. No need to waste your precious time with someone who doesn’t appreciate what you have to offer. Your best screen name attracts a match who is on your wavelength.

How do you choose your best screen name?

To discover your best screen name, focus on your strengths. Make a list of your best qualities, talents, hobbies, passions and special contributions that you bring to a new relationship.

What are your top three favorites? Can you add “4U” to show what you offer your love match?

How do you want to introduce yourself to the great love of your life? Now that is the best screen name for you to choose!